Surrender

If you were to ask me when I was "saved", I would tell you that I felt God's presence for the first time when I was in seventh grade at a "spiritual emphasis" event that my school entertained every year. I went through the whole "pray this prayer" and the tears and the hugging and the "with every head bowed and with every eye closed" shebang (Christian school kids: you know exactly what I'm talking about). I'm not going to open up a debate about "once saved always saved" or entertain hypothetical scenarios about if I had died the next day where my soul would have spent its eternity or anything like that. I just know that that experience was the start of an inward transformation. It took three years, but I truly trusted God with my life and started following Jesus when I was in tenth grade. I can't pinpoint a specific date or sermon or praise and worship song, but I do know that that was the year when I surrendered, in full, to the King of kings and I haven't looked back. Maybe I'm not qualified to say anything about any of this because I've been active in my faith for a mere four or five years. And there is room for that I suppose, but to that I would say that based off of Biblical characters such as Paul, I don't believe that God uses duration of faith as a qualification for much of anything. He uses a surrendered and an eager spirit, which is my main point.

I went to Christian school in Michigan for preschool through half of second grade and then again in North Carolina for half of sixth grade through my senior year of high school. I remember when I was younger seeing posters on the walls with cute sayings about trusting God. Some had little animated characters on them, others had baby animals. The words were typically written with some bold and colorful font. I remember one acronym specifically: FROG--Fully Rely On God. Clever, right? It's an easy way to remember a simple command.

Okay, now pause. Let me elaborate on what I mean when I say "a simple command". Nothing is really stimulated intellectually when I say or when you read the acronym "fully rely on God". It's simple to understand. It's simple to claim "I have faith in God" and it's simple for the person listening to comprehend what you are saying. But allow me to be clear (and I can really only speak for myself though I believe I am not alone in this): there is very little that is simple or easy about getting to a place where I can truthfully say that I fully rely on God. I'd venture to say that there is nothing simple about that. It's painful, it can be ugly, and it means going against everything that our society would have us do.

Yesterday, I found myself seriously hesitating to give God control over every part of my life. And let's be honest: that was not the first time and I'm certain it will not be the last. At the beginning of this post when I said that in tenth grade I surrendered, in full, to Christ, that was the first time. As a Christian, that surrender is supposed to occur every day, every hour, every second. It is a relentless surrender. If I were to just scratch the surface of the question: "is a person once saved, always saved?" I would say that many people find themselves where I found myself in seventh grade at least once in their lives. I AM NOT QUALIFIED TO SAY FOR CERTAIN AND MY OPINION COULD CHANGE AT ANY TIME BECAUSE I AM NINETEEN YEARS OLD WITH A LOT TO LEARN AND I AM IN NO WAY MAKING ANY JUDGMENTS...but...I think many people feel the overwhelming presence of God, surrender to that presence in the heat of the moment with a lot of people around and emotions going haywire, and then leave it at that. Pardon my boldness, but I'm not sure I believe that that is true surrender. My decision in tenth grade was made consciously. It was a rational decision and I cannot pinpoint specifics about when I did it because it was a mental and a spiritual decision before it was an emotional one. But that decision to surrender should be a moment to moment ritual.

"And a scribe came up and said to [Jesus], 'Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go.' And Jesus said to him, 'Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.' Another of the disciples said to him, 'Lord, let me first go and bury my father.' And Jesus said to him, 'Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their own dead.'" 

Matthew 8:19-22 ESV

Had these men made the decision then and there to follow Jesus, every day they would have to choose to continue following Jesus. What we Christians don't think about sometimes is how easy it is to just stop following Jesus. We can get a little sidetracked while we're walking, or get tired, or hungry, or just flat-out lazy. These men could easily turn around and have a comfortable place to sleep or spend time with a mourning family. They could trail far behind Jesus claiming to "follow" Him, but really hang back because they are still holding on to something outside of what Jesus wants and has for them. But, the further those men would follow Jesus away from those things, the more difficult it would be for them to go back to those comforts because they would be so close to Jesus and so far from their former lives. Neither one of the things the men are holding on to is inherently sinful, but a life with Jesus means living radically. It means surrendering constantly and immediately. It means releasing control and giving up the life I've planned for myself. It means having unswerving faith in God over every part of me. It means a new life and a new purpose so grand, the thought of the life I'd planned becomes repulsive and embarrassing. It means that choosing to live this life that was so graciously given to me is all or nothing with no turning back.

Hello sophomore year!

I'm just so filled with all kinds of joy and happiness right now, I'm having some difficulty collecting my thoughts. Let me try:

This year is unfolding perfectly. I just got back from Overflow and let me just say that Port City Community Church in Wilmington, North Carolina is the best thing that has happened to me since I've started my college journey. This Sunday, our pastor (Mike Ashcraft) started a series called "This is My Church" and those four words hit the nail right on the head. I love going to church. It's rarely a chore and it's almost always what I want and prefer to do. That's a gift if I've ever received one. And with having dreams of someday going into ministry, working at Port City seems a whole lot like a dream come true. But that's not my choice to make :)

My roommates are so, so wonderful. I truly love them to pieces. There is no way, however, that I can reasonably expect to leave this year without having at least a slight southern accent. Ya'll are souuuutherrrrrrn and I love it. Thank you for always including me and introducing me to new people. It's the greatest. I love living in an apartment and having my own car here is awesome, praise the Lord for that!

My parents are outstanding to say the absolute least. Mom always goes all out on decorating and my room is amazing. I'm obsessed with it. It is beautiful and perfect and it is all thanks to her. Saying goodbye to them breaks my heart but then I get to think about how blessed I am that I love them enough to experience pain in the goodbyes! If it was an easy "see ya later", then I think we would have an issue. But I love them so, so much and I know that they love me and that's a really great feeling. Thank you for everything mom and dad, you're always at the top of my list.

Classes and my new nannying job start tomorrow and I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous. But I'm excited. I'm getting more into the major that I love (Communication Studies) and (as opposed to last year) I will have an income! Getting that job was so stress-free and easy, I'm a little worried it's too good to be true!

Real talk though: I'm nervous about making friends. How lame does that sound?? Embarrassing. I feel like I'm behind too since I'm a sophomore. I've signed up for a small group through PC3 and I plan to do SAO (the Christian sorority). I'm blessed with a few friends who love Jesus passionately, but I want and need a close circle of friends who are just completely captivated by Jesus so that we can have a God-centered friendship. I need accountability and encouragement to be the best that I can be. And I want to be able to give the same things I need! While I'm a little nervous about it, my time here these past couple days has really put me at ease because I know I serve a God who is sovereign over everything and I have nothing to fear. Hasta la vista anxiety, don't let the door hit you on your way out!

I'm striving to embody the Proverbs 31 woman more and more and my goal this year is to face every tomorrow with a smile and without fear. Praising God at this high point in my life and trusting His omniscient and compassionate guidance.

Some tips for those of you preparing to go off to college for the first time.

I don't know how valuable my opinion is, but I wanted to give incoming college freshmen a few tips based off of my experience that I think I would have liked to have known prior to starting my freshman year. Some may sound like a parent, but trust me: when you're in my position a year from now, you'll look back and say to yourself "ohhhh! THAT'S what she meant!". So, humbly, here we go!

• Go to church. It's one of the most important things I can tell you. Isn't it like 80-90% of church-going high-schoolers don't go to church in college? Whatever it may be, fight it. Hard. Even if you have to go by yourself. You'll want to sleep, eat, watch tv, whatever, but going to church provides stability, routine, and discipline all necessary to your relationship with Christ. Not to mention, Jesus tells us to do it. College kids are not the exception, contrary to common belief.
• Not everyone drinks. I know, "duh" right? Well, no. The good eggs are tough to find, ya'll. Let's just be honest. The drinking crowd is the easiest crowd to get in with because all you have to have in common is a love for getting ratchet...which you can easily develop if you didn't have it prior to college. If you find yourself looking around you and literally no one can have a good time sober, you're not looking hard enough. Don't sit in your dorm and mope, get out there. You have nothing to lose. Christian organizations, neighbors, Facebook creep, classes, church, etc. If you're going to party that's fine, just don't say it was because it was the only option.
• Food moderation. For those of you like me, you will have a tendency to essentially starve yourselves because you'll forget to eat. I know that sounds silly, but your parents are not stocking your fridge (well, some of your parents might be financially stocking it, but the responsibility still lies with you) and you have to stay on top of it. I had a hard time justifying spending my money on food that my mom would usually buy...I had to get over it and bite the bullet. Obviously the opposite is more true than my scenario: Freshman 15. UNCW overall is a really fit school, so things like eating healthy and going to the gym are highly encouraged and really popular (gotta keep up the beach bod), but even with that being the case--you have a lot of free time, more than you will know what to do with. Do not eat because you are bored. Fight it. Chew copious amounts of gum if you have to. Oh, and beer and most alcoholic beverages are loaded with calories, the beer belly is not a myth and ladies it is not cute.
• Do not overwhelm yourself, especially first semester. People push "GET INVOLVED GET INVOLVED GET INVOLVED!!" and yes, you absolutely should, but at your own pace. Everything worth being a part of happens outside of your comfort zone but you need to know yourself and to know your limits. This is a huge transition. Taking it slow can be very beneficial, too. 
• Every freshman is the new kid. Cliche, I know. But don't ever let yourself think that you're alone in this, because you've got hundreds, if not thousands of kids right there with you. Some show it differently but you're all in the same boat.
• You don't have to have every step of your life planned out. This was huge for me. It's totally okay to just chill. You have to take core classes anyways, so if you don't know your major yet, CALM DOWN. It's most likely going to change, anyway. Take a variety of classes within the core selection and see what you like. Literally everyone is going to ask you what your major is. That doesn't mean you need to know. Answer differently every time or tell them majors that don't exist, I don't know! Just don't stress. God's gonna get you there, don't you worry bout a thang.
• You don't have to be everyone's best friend. Surprise! We aren't in high school anymore! Always be kind and always be respectful, but there are no cliques for you to try to squeeze your way into and you don't have to go around trying to be the "most popular" unless you're running for class president. 
• Study. For hours upon days upon weeks. It will come more naturally than you think (this is for those of you who are like me and didn't have to put much time into high school work) but it will also blindside you when your medium effort lands you a D that usually would have no doubt gotten you an A. Cs get degrees, remember that.
• Authentic friendships take time. The friendships I made in middle and high school at NRCA were and are just amazing. I connect with those people on every level. So, I went to college thinking I would immediately find those same connections in people I had just met. Obviously, I was wrong. I may be speaking to a minority here because I think this is mostly common sense, but if you feel like you have the really deep friendships that I do, understand that those took years to get to the place where they are now. Just be prepared to start from scratch with people. Which means some awkward small talk sometimes a lot. You will build, though. You just have to give it time. It's amazing how connections deepen and strengthen even just from August to May. If you try to force it, you could ruin it and miss out on valuable and memorable steps along the way.
• You will start to lose contact with old friends. It's okay. It's natural and not a terrible thing. The people who care the most about you will make the effort and vice versa. 
• Going home every weekend makes it difficult for people to get to know you. You can do it, yes, absolutely. You can do it quite well in fact. All I'm saying is that the weekend is when you can do a lot more with people and spend a lot of time with them. If you're spending that time at home, you have to play catch up every time you come back. It's definitely possible, but it's also harder. We all detach from home at different rates, some are slower than others. I personally don't find myself needing to go home that often (I got sick first semester which caused me to come home a lot for appointments, and if anyone would like to know about it feel free to ask) but others have a very, very difficult time being away and it's heartbreaking to watch. Just know for those of you who are homebodies that it's painful but you will get through it and you will grow, a lot. Sometimes you need to endure the pain though.
• Sleep. 
• The dining hall will get old after about a week. Know of other food to eat or you'll be in trouble.
• Have a good study spot. Not a lot of people I knew actually studied in their dorms. I won't post my study spot so fellow Seahawks don't snag it, but having a routine place is comforting in a weird way. You can study anywhere on campus, go on little adventures by yourself! It's very peaceful, actually.
• Don't bring up politics or religion with someone who obviously believes the opposite. Seriously. This is coming from THE lover of all arguments. It is not worth it. Think of your motives when you start: if it's pride, the love of a fight, anger, the need to "correct" or be right, to appear intelligent--put that puppy to sleep. Jog it off, take a lap, count to ten, some deep breaths--whatever gets you zen. I went from being the person in high school who was up in arms at ANY argument to the almost silent college kid, by choice. I shouldn't be silent, I know, the point is that "only a fool says everything on his mind." Don't be a fool because you'll be publicly made one. Ignorant arrogance is a terrible thing.
• Finally: be yourself. Ya'll, this is the best part. People want to know you. People want to know your quirkiness, weirdness, everything that makes you, YOU! Don't try to "fit in" because the only way to fit in is by being an individual. Everyone can relate to weirdness, no one can relate to perfection. Do you. And while you're doing you, your path will cross with the paths of those similar to you, and thus, friendship! Be confident in your unique and radiant individuality. Every second you spend pretending to be someone else is a second you have wasted that was intended for only you to fulfill in a very important and specific way. Don't miss opportunities because of that. 

And that about sums it up for what I'd like to publicly say. I'm pretty much an open book so if anyone wanted to talk about anything or pray about the upcoming four years, please contact me. I'd love to do anything I can to add some comfort to this huge transition. Facebook, twitter, texting, email, phone calls--I'm pretty accessible! 

Call on Jesus for everything, both college related and not. If you're following Him, you will not be led astray. 

Interruptions

I've noticed as I've gotten older, especially when I'm really passionate about something, that I am a very "destination-oriented" person. When I want something or need to get somewhere, I am extremely punctual and relentless in achieving what I need to achieve. Everything is done with a sense of urgency. Even in conversation, if I'm on a roll and I get interrupted, it makes me so angry and I get all frazzled and can't remember what I was saying. I am that way to a fault but it's also a negative thing because I am only that way about the things that I care most about. If I don't care, then it is very apparent and I am lazy. Regardless, I speak on behalf of most "type-As" when I say that the details along the way to an end goal are not very important and if anyone or anything stands in the way of that end goal, it would be in his best interest to be fully armed and protected as he will be plowed over. Ruthless, abrasive, aggressive, overbearing, controlling, over-confident, extreme, intense, impulsive, perfectionistic...pick your adjective of choice. It's a fine example of a God-given personality trait that is incredibly powerful when He uses it and remarkably destructive when I use it.

My point (yes, I have one, just bear with me) is crazy for me. I've noticed while reading the Bible and listening to sermons and what not that almost all of Jesus' miracles are interruptions. He was always going somewhere else or those firsthand receiving the miracles were going somewhere else when their paths crossed.

• On His way back to the Temple in John 9, Jesus heals the blind man with dirt and spit
• On His way to heal a man's 12-year-old daughter, He heals the woman with the hemorrhages in Luke 8
• In Luke 7, a family is carrying their son's coffin to his funeral while Jesus was on the way to another village. Their paths cross and Jesus raises the boy from the dead. 
• In Matthew 9, Jesus and His disciples had just gotten off the boat to return to Jesus' hometown when some men carried a paraplegic man on a stretcher to Him and Jesus healed him.
• When Jesus is on His way to Capernaum in Matthew 8, He heals a leper.

The list goes on and on. Every second of His time spent on earth is in anticipation for when His "time" (as it is often referred to as in John) comes...His purpose...His destination. But Jesus isn't a bulldozer. And that doesn't mean His destination is unimportant, I think we all know that. His destination is and was the most important. I mean, come on, eternal salvation and a repulsive slate wiped entirely clean? Redemption for our hopeless and mortal souls? I'd say it's a pretty critical destination as it pertains to you and me. Jesus has this crazy amazing balance between being goal-oriented and detail-oriented. He gives His full attention to the petty interruptions while still, somehow, prioritizing the goal. He has the upper hand as He is, well, perfect, but it is still something I am striving to emulate. Jesus was focused on His goal, gave His full attention and His full compassion to the interruptions, and never lost track of where He was going. He was always pushing forward in the same direction, even if He paused for a bit. 

Jesus says in Matthew 6:34:

Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.

So, the lesson for me? 

1. Stay focused. Never lose sight of the goal. Always press forward to that goal, but
2. Everything that crosses my path is intentional. I have to give my best to every interruption and hiccup along the way, or the goal serves no purpose. 
3. My God is guiding me and blessing me along the way. We know as believers that He is in control, but as a type-A perfectionist, I tend to forget that He is in complete control. That end goal that I'm following is constant and infinite and unchanging even when my circumstances are not. I have nothing to worry about.

"The last and final word is this: fear God. Do what He tells you. & that's it." Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

I've been thinking lately about if my approach to...everything is too strong. With the 2012 presidential election rapidly approaching, the need for jobs becoming ever-so eminent, the never-ending list of questions about what I'm going to do after I graduate, & so on...I wonder if I'm taking life too seriously...am I too passionate about small issues? Obviously this question stems from comparison of myself to those around me. What about all those sayings like: "Do whatever you want, just be happy", "celebrate we will, for life is short but sweet for certain" or that new pop/rap/hip-hop/whatever song "so what we get drunk, so what we smoke weed..." I don't think I need to finish. Are these artists on to something?

Heeeeck no. It's not even close.

That thought lived in my mind for approximately six seconds before I came to a more realistic conclusion.

Excuse my honesty (actually, just don't), but what is the point of living at all if I don't live with purpose? The title of my blog "I'm off and running & I'm not turning back" is taken from Philippians 3:14. Paul is a textbook example of a man living with a purpose. Writing & preaching from within a prison cell, completely determined to spread the Truth.

Let's be realistic, Molly. What if you're wrong? What if this whole Christianity thing is a hoax? What then?

I know a lot of people blow those questions off, but I'm not going to.

So let's say it's all fake. I've invested my entire life in a fairytale. Okay, let's play this out.

Dust to dust. From dust I came & to dust I shall return. If I'm 90, on my death bed, & I have some phenomenal epiphany that everything I've invested my life in is not real, will I regret? Will the first thing that comes to mind be the fact that I only had sex with my husband? That I spent possibly years of my life listening to & singing songs of praise to a God that doesn't exist? That I didn't have an ounce of alcohol until I was 21? That I could count the college parties I went to on one hand? That the people I spent the majority of my time with were people who shared the same values & encouraged such "goody-goody" behaviors? That in high school I was cyber-bullied for taking a stand? That my whole life was sprinkled with random bouts of persecution?

I can honestly say no, I would not regret.


I'll think of the hope I had. I'll think of those I loved deeply & how blessed I was to be so deeply loved in return. I'll think of the beautiful places I got to see & the sometimes incomprehensible blessings I inherited on a daily basis. If my life was 100% within my control, I will consider myself to be the luckiest person to have ever lived because every positive & negative experience I had shaped my character & development. I will recollect the countless ways that the innumerable amount of people I met touched & changed my life. I'll remember learning that giving is the ultimate joy & hard work produces the most supreme satisfaction. I'll remember the times I spent in my husband's arms, feeling & experiencing, giving & receiving a love so intense that I thought for certain my heart would leap out of my chest. I'll see all the mind-images of my gorgeous children entering & exiting each stage of their lives. I'll inhale deeply & exhale slowly as I consider the nearly unbearable pain that the scattered battles in my life brought me & faintly smile because by some great mystery, I made it through. I will do my best to remember the now-faded images of my childhood & the faces of my parents who have long since passed, & hope, as I lay still on that bed in my final moments, that the values they did their best to instill within me were not pearls to swine. I'll hope that the light that they carried so surely & brightly was even just half as illuminated within me. But more importantly than all of my precious memories, I will be ready to die because my life had a purpose that gave me a drive & fulfillment that I could never conjure up on my own.
So, with a frail & decrepit body that gave its very best to me, combined with a heart full of peace, gratefulness, & joy; I will return to the dust from which I came, confident that if I had the opportunity to go back & try again, there is not one thing I would change.


I am by no stretch of the imagination a scholar or an expert in any field whatsoever; but if I know anything, I know that the genesis of regret most often can be traced back to a lack of a virtue or the absence of an action. There is no virtue that justifies a self-gratifying life. The search for carnal happiness & satisfaction is a bottomless pit of greed, disappointment, insecurity, uncertainty, &, of course, emptiness.

Thankfully, I know what I believe & what I have dedicated my life to is true. Don't ask me how, & don't ask me to prove it, because all I have is personal experiences & the Book of Truth. I will never cease to live my life passionately & boldly. That's the gift that my Father has so graciously given me: zest.
Albert Einstein & I share one fundamental similarity:
"I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious."


I digress to the title of my blog:
Friends, don't get me wrong: by no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I've got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward -- to Jesus. I'm off and running, & I'm not turning back.
{ Philippians 3:13-14 }

When Jesus saw him...He said, "Do you want to be healed?" John 5:6

I recently heard a pastor say that the first book of the Bible that anyone should read is John. Well, it's a little late for that for me personally, but I recently started reading a chapter a day and I can see why spiritual leaders would suggest young Christians begin their studies there. John gives a wonderful account of Jesus' life that is very easy to understand. I've only been doing this for a week (so I'm only on chapter seven), but so far what I've noticed is that I recognize all of the stories of the miracles, but there are only a few that I have really taken the time to go through and dissect myself. Which is totally awesome, because I have so much untouched material to go through!

One of the many things that amazes me about both the Bible and Jesus Christ Himself is that they are both basic enough for a child to understand, yet complex enough for Theologians to spend years and years analyzing with a fine-tooth comb. Everything is multi-faceted. And it really only makes sense for it to be that way because that is how the Holy Spirit can grab different people during all different walks of life. It's amazing. The more I scrutinize, the more I get out of it...and equally, the more I think He has run out of things to show me to rock my world, the more violently He rocks it.

The Pharisees--oh, the Pharisees. I could sit here and whine about how much I detest them and how much I hate their pride and petty perfectionism, but truth be told, they served an enormous purpose...they wouldn't be talked about in the Scriptures so much if they didn't. Their blind ignorance is one of the biggest ways that Jesus' glory was revealed. They didn't know it, but they were working right alongside the disciples painting that huge, neon, flashy billboard with arrows and fireworks directing attention upward to His heavenly majesty. Every time they tried to call Jesus out for healing on the Sabbath or spending His time with "the least of these", I imagine the King, omnipresent and powerful as He is, laughing to Himself a little bit. Their attempts were so feeble and self-righteous, I can't imagine that He would respond in any other way. Man does He love them, but boy were they off. The reason I bring up the Pharisees is because without their obnoxious tattle-taling and nitpicking, they would not have drawn more attention to the miracle that Jesus executes.

Which brings me, I suppose, to John 5. Jesus is in Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate at a place called the pool of Bethesda. In Hebrew, Bethesda means "house of grace" or "house of mercy". The pool of Bethesda is where the sick, crippled, and paralyzed would go because of its rumored healing powers when the water stirred. They would lay there, some, for copious amounts of time, outcasted by society, simply waiting. Jesus' miracle in John 5 is about a man who had been lying at the pool for thirty-eight years. Thirty-eight years. Can we just pause for a moment and try to comprehend that amount of time? I know I at almost nineteen years old can't even come close. My parents were in elementary school! I do not know how old this man was, but to have been laying in this one place for almost forty years, what could he possibly have to go back to? His home was the pool of Bethesda. Whether he liked it or not, that pool inhabited by the rejects and the sickest was essentially his. Thirty-eight years is more than enough time to make this man, or anyone for that matter, sick in the head as well. He was accustomed to the life he was forced to live. He was rendered useless in contributing to a society so what does he do? What would you do? We cannot fully comprehend because that isn't necessarily how America is, and obviously we have the gift of medicine and therapy to help heal some of the consequences of our human condition. But for this man, perhaps he went to the pool of Bethesda as a child, believing with all of his heart that this pool contained the rumored healing water to rid him of his repulsive state--to make him clean. How long does one hold on to that hope? What about his family or friends? They could be the most supportive of any group of people that has ever lived, but they couldn't stay there with him. He was alone. Dehumanized, ostracized, and left for dead. Can hope hold on for nearly a lifetime?

Jesus walks up to this man, stretched out by the pool, and asks him a question that is far too often overlooked:


"Do you want to be healed?" (v. 6)


Do I want to be healed? Are you joking? Do you have any idea the misery I live in, day in and day out? I have been a slave to as close to unbearable pain as you can get for thirty eight years. I am incapable of getting into the pool of Bethesda when the water stirs because I have no one to help me in. Every day of my life I wonder if it will be my last and on most days, I really hope it will be my last, because me merely existing is a nuisance at best to everyone. Do you, sir, know what it is like to be a man and not have the ability to even get in a pool of water? I can't do anything on my own and even if there were someone here to help me it wouldn't matter because I would just create a bigger burden in his life. But you know what? After nearly forty years of the same exact mundane, painful, and utterly useless things every day, I almost believe that even if I were healed, for me to start over would be almost, if not already, impossible. I've completely lost touch with anything that happens outside of this place and I would be dreadfully lost were I to see it again. On the other side of healing there is self-restoration and that restoration doesn't come easily.

Jesus' miracles always mean something and they are always symbolic. The beauty of the multi-faceted nature of Jesus and His work is that the symbols can change even when Jesus never does. We are the scattered around the healing pool of Bethesda. The sickest of the sick, the empty, the worthless, the broken, the useless, the most repulsive, and the hurting. Some of us have been sick for what feels like thirty eight years...some of us have been sick for maybe a week, some our entire lives, but it doesn't matter.

Do you want to be healed?


Be honest with yourself as I am honest with myself: do you sit in your misery and complain about the dreadful pain you're in or the seemingly worthless nature of your life? Stuck in a sinful cycle that never seems to end? Does it seem to just be one negative thing after the other? Can't catch a break? What about when the opportunity arises to be made well, whole, clean, pure? It seems obvious in this man's case that he would immediately say yes, right? It also seems obvious that in your hurting state and in my hurting state that we would jump on any opportunity to have the brokenness put back together. Jesus is Healer. He is the Healer. But He doesn't do your life for you. Do you want to be healed? You have the choice.

Jesus tells the man in verse seven, "Get up, take your bedroll, and start walking." After thirty-eight years of painful paralysis, YOU figure out how to get back on your feet. It's painful, son, and yes, you are quite a bit rusty. But I promise you that there is life and life abundant beyond the perimeter of this miserable place, and I promise you even more that yes, it's going to hurt and yes, it's going to be hard, but if you put your faith in Me, your life will flourish more than you can even begin to imagine. So get up, man; I am right here to catch you when you fall.

"Give all your attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow."

Long time no post! College has been extremely busy and makes my already seldom blogging a little bit more difficult, but a new case of insomnia has led me here!


I've been dealing with some mad anxiety since I got to college. I mean, stuff I haven't dealt with in years has been cropping up out of nowhere. I believe the worst of it is over and God has been faithful in His sovereignty and intimacy with me in my walk since I got here. 


Cool story: I have never been able to take naps. I know most teenagers and college kids do, but the second I lay down to take a midday snooze, my mind immediately starts racing through all of the things I need to accomplish and I simply cannot sleep. Well, apparently this nasty, compulsive habit has expanded to my nighttime sleeping adventures as well, hence the 5AM blog post. 


Church in Wilmington thus far has been amazing to say the absolute least. Port City is where I belong and it feels so good. On Sunday they sang the song "Manifesto" by City Harmonic (if you haven't heard it before, look it up right now.) and I was just so taken aback by its power. There is nothing super powerful about the lyrics, up until the bridge when the lead singer recites a goose bump-inducing rendition of the Lord's Prayer.


Being raised in a Christian home, church, and school, I am aware that the Lord's Prayer was never intended to be recited. Jesus simply uses it as a model to show us the proper way to come before the Lord in prayer. I know how strongly it has been emphasized that this prayer is not THE prayer and it has no "magic powers" over any of our prayers...but sometimes (I've found), there is just really no better way to say it than the way Jesus says it. And for me, when I am at a loss for words in prayer, I like to quote the Big Man Himself because He always has a way of saying it way better than I could ever articulate on my own.


So I decided to reread the Lord's Prayer which is found in Matthew 6. And HOW FORTUITOUS that a few verses down Jesus would tell me:


"If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don't you think He'll attend to you, take pride in you, do His best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving. People who don't know God and the way He works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how He works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don't worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.
Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes." Matthew 6:30-34


So, here I am, in the wee hours of the morning, stressing about everything that needs to be done, when I stumble across this beaut. Matthew 6 is not the only place in the Bible where He tells me to relax, either. He makes that so clear. What I fail to understand most of the time is that when I am WORRYING there is zero room for FAITH. It's straight up sinful and it creates this playground for Satan's nasty mind games.


God, please still my anxious heart. You have never failed to provide for me as I have never failed to fall flat on my face when I decide to take matters into my own hands. Hold me closely in Your perfect and loving embrace and never let me go, though I may squirm. I love you Father.